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Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage

Unlocking the Secrets to Ultimate Bliss

Shaykh Dr Abdur-Rahman Ibn Yusuf Mangera (author)

Al-Arbain of Abd ar-Rahman Ibn ‘Asakir (author)

Publisher: White Thread Press

Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage is the indispensable marriage guide. With a wealth of experience and a warm sympathetic tone, the author Shaykh Abdur-Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera brings the insight of a scholar with thousands of hours of spiritual and marital-counselling practice and Islamic erudition to this crucial subject. Topics range from how to find a partner and dealing with in-laws to developing spousal intimacy and the unfortunate divorce.


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Detailed Description

  • Extremely well thought-out, well-written and easily digestible with its casual tone
  • Offers an absolute wealth of anecdotal experiences along with cultural discussions and the necessary legal explanation.
  • Provides many real-life experiences and scenarios to make it relatable to each reader, especially in the West.
  • Suggests practical solutions to the multiple issues arising in any marriage, especially how to navigate conflict.
  • Provides detailed discussions on domestic violence and subjects like infertility and sexual intimacy.
  • Offers useful suggestions for kindling romance.
  • A handy resource for every couple throughout their journey of marriage.
  • A potential saver of couples from messing up their lives and making terrible errors they would later regret.
  • Contemporary Islamic self-help on marriage at its finest.

Contents of Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage:

  1. Marriage and Family Life in Islam
  2. Preparation for Marriage
  3. What to Look for in a Spouse
  4. How to Find a Spouse
  5. The Marriage Contract and Wedding Ceremonies
  6. Building a Successful Relationship
  7. Sexual Intimacy, Romance and Etiquette
  8. The Wider Family Unit: Children and In-Laws
  9. Dealing With Marital Problems
  10. Divorce

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Editorial Reviews

Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage by Mufti Abdur-Rahman Mangera will be the first book I give my son as he begins to contemplate the life stage of marriage and family. In this book, Mufti Mangera discusses every aspect of marriage including choosing a spouse, the wedding itself, creating a life together, children, sexuality, and also marital problems and issues of divorce. He includes anecdotal experiences along with legal explanations and cultural discussions. This book encourages the reader to grow his mindset from thinking solely about the legalities of marriage to contemplating its realities, with sweet tips about romance and just plain old goodness.

Dr. Tamara Gray

Executive Director, Rabata, USA

Alhamdulillah, this is a very well thought-out and well-written book on the details of such an important topic. Shaykh Mufti Abdur-Rahman Mangera has indeed simplified the subject in a way that is clear, to the point and beneficial. May Allah Almighty grant his work acceptance and reward him in this world and the next. Aameen.

Mufti Ismail Menk

Zimbabwe, 10 Ramadan 1440

Mufti Abdur-Rahman Mangera’s well-written work, titled “Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage is basically just that: a book and a guide that every Muslim couple should keep as a handy resource throughout their journey of marriage. In some ten chapters, the author – in a casual and descriptive manner – discusses and provides practical solutions to the various issues that arise in any given marriage. Examples quoted from real life scenarios and experiences really make the book personal and relatable to each reader.” I pray Allah Most High accept it and make it beneficial, Amin.

Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari

Darul Iftaa, UK

With a wealth of experience and a warm, sympathetic tone, Shaykh Abdur-Rahman brings the insight of a scholar with thousands of hours of spiritual and marital-counselling practice and Islamic erudition to his subject. He answers questions of a practical nature about finding a spouse, approaching intimacy, dealing with cultural expectations, and navigating conflict, while also grounding the discussion in Islamic principles and elevating our view of marriage as an arena to show good character and ethical behaviour….

I believe that no Imam should perform a nikah (wedding) ceremony unless the prospective couple has had premarital counselling and demonstrated sufficient knowledge of the fiqh (rulings) associated with marriage and, very importantly, the spirit of those rulings. Shaykh Abdur-Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera’s book, in my opinion, would be ideally suited as an in-depth prerequisite course of marital counselling for a prospective bride and groom, and should be required reading for all parties involved. May Allah Ta’ala reward Shaykh Abdur-Rahman for this labour of love and accept from him.

Ustadha Zaynab Ansari

Tayseer Seminary, USA

Masha Allah all the information is well put, organized and clearly stated. Despite being “written by a man” I think women will find it quite fair, if not advantageous to them and their personal experiences.

Ustadha Shamira


I really like the fact that the book is an easy read and touches upon topics which other books consider unimportant to talk about. I also like that the book begins with the procedure of finding a partner and ends with divorce, covering almost all aspects, even having children and still making an effort for your spouse.

Shaikha Fatima Barkatulla


Publications Details

Weight 0.264 kg
Dimensions 22 × 15 × 2 cm


Pub date

Aug 2019

SKU: BE-101Categories: Featured, SpiritualityTags: Books

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